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2014 was quietly wonderful. I stepped away from a lot of the things I was involved in during 2013 so life had a completely different texture.
Life-changing highlights: finding a counselor and paying off $11,000 of debt!!
Massage anniversary dinner party for clients
Marie Antoinette birthday party
Best shows/movies I watched:
American Horror Story
Guardians of the Galaxy
X-Men: Days of Future Past
The Theory of Everything
“Last year you were a super nova, this year you are capable of sustaining life.”
“You look like you’ve robbed the rainbow.”
Here are some more of the adventures I had!
I started doing collage parties and discovered that they can be a form of art therapy!
Had a Valentine’s/Cold-Weather-Sucks Indian food party with my lovely friends
Moved across the street back into my old house for the month while petsitting Ollie, a crazy adorable dog (therefore fulfilling my goal of owning a dog for a month)
Trained said dog
Met Jena and Colin a cute couple from NYC and introduced them to Staunton
Hosted a fabulous dinner party with 11 guests (and took ZERO pictures….ugh!!)
Had brunch in Harrisonburg with Ros and Melissa at The Little Grill
Moved back home
Modeled for a Degas class
Was a tree for earth day. Got to hug everybody (“hug a tree”)
Held a successful cash mob for The Store
Went to Richmond to visit Vanessa for her son, Max’s first birthday!
Traveled to Colorado to see my whole family for my cousin, Will’s graduation
Took over HourEconomy Swaps and turned them into Staunton Swaps
Watched all of the Harry Potter movies with Molly
Designed t-shirts for my business
Inspired work week for Hour Economy to promote exchanges. This prompted The Little Libraries to be built right in Jena and Colin’s backyard!!
Marie Antoinette dessert and tea birthday party. With so many of my favorite ladies.
July got a little harder after that because my moms health started REALLY going down….
Mom went to the hospital in Salem for a few days.
I met a cute guy named Keenan.
Went to the safari park with my mom.
Movie nights at By&By became a regular event with Savanna and Brigitte.
The Dixie closed and we all went to see a double: ET & Jaws
Got involved in fighting the pipeline
Went on a daaaaaate.
Got a raise @ Alls Well. Became Laura’s new partner in crime.
Dreaded my friend Yolo’s hair. New skill!
Started having breakfasts with Dawn every other Thursday
Started selling my shirts at Made;
Started meeting with my counselor, Suzanne.
Made my own hula hoop and learned how to use it :)
Full moon parties with Brittney
Brigitte and I got our portraits done!
More pipeline stuff: Free Not Fracked
Chair massages at Cranberry’s
DC Art trip– got to meet up with my best friends from when I was little. All grown up now!!
Gave a talk at the YMCA about the Hour Economy
Church Downtown turned 1 and I got to speak about it’s affect on me
I met TJs friend, Sayward
House sitting for Suzanne
Finally got my office all clean
Anne Buzzelli turned 40 and all of Staunton celebrated!
I was part of Art for Gifts for the 3rd year– packaging way improved this year :)
Sparkles and Sweets happened
Watched Cyrano at Blackfriars with Ros
Started accepting credit cards with my nifty Square!
We were in the Christmas parade
Christmas Carol at Blackfriars
12 Dates at Blackfriars
Stone Soup closed it’s doors :(
Surprise birthday party for Monika
Ugly sweater party
Helped Caitlin move
Church Downtown got to have Christmas Eve at Blackfriars and TJ came with me!
Went on vacation for 2 weeks.
Became a mermaid.
So, it was actually a pretty full year…. I’m ready to start fresh, though!
This will be The Year I Got Out Of Debt, Got Fit, and Started REALLY Living
Word for 2015: Moxie!!
What do you personally get out of the Year of Massage?
I have something to look forward to each month. It’s a time set aside just for me.
Why do you recommend YOM?
Awesome stress relief and relaxation. If you book in advance, you’re giving an amazing gift to yourself each month.
What would make YOM even better?
I’m thrilled with it as it is. The price is affordable and I love the friendship I’ve developed with you!
Absolute favorite part of YOM:
Flexible scheduling and willing to work around zany events in my life without batting an eye.
I like committing to a year& the payment plan.
I love coming for my monthly massage because I know I’m gonna get healing in many ways.
I would pay full price but grateful I don’t have to.
I love reading your articles& learning from you.
I love your pink hair!!
What do you personally get out of the Year of Massage? ((What is/are the main impact(s) it has on your life?))
Scheduling regular massages gives me a time each month devoted exclusively to making me feel AWESOME.
It reminds me that it’s important every once in a while to do things that aren’t goal-oriented, but are really just me-oriented.
I find that if I just schedule massages when I feel like I need one, I don’t have as many as I should, and it’s too easy to talk myself out of them.
Signing up for a whole year of massage bakes this important self-focused activity into my routine.
Why do you recommend YOM?
It’s important to have ME-time, and to intentionally show yourself some self-love. It’s a terrific self-present :).
Absolute favorite part:
I love the heated table, the scented oils on the headrest, and the great company!
I benefit from massage in the following ways:
A. I am generally touch- deprived, so this gives me a chance to experience touch.
B. My muscles smile when I have massage– and for several days afterward.
C. It’s a time of complete disconnection from the frenzy of life.
D. I love Joy– her spirit lifts me up!!
I’d recommend it to anyone (and I have!) who likes to relax.
What do you personally get out of the Year of Massage? ((What is/are the main impact(s) it has on your life?))
My body is so much more relaxed and I’m more aware of my body tensing up throughout my days, especially during stressful moments. It very well knows when it’s time to visit Planet Joy each month to rediscover, and once again release, my inner fluidity.
The chronic pain I deal with from arthritis, fibro, etc. is lessened now, also.
More purposeful relaxation and less pain. Along with some of the best discussions ever.
WHY do you recommend YOM?
I’ve not tried a wide variety of massage therapists, but from the few I have visited, Joy’s has been the most gentle, yet wholly effective for my body’s specific needs.
There’s also a kindred spirit connection that makes it feel like I’ve known her forever, and peeps like that are definitely amongst of the cream of the crop, in my opinion. :o)
What’s your favorite part of YOM?
You go above and beyond to accommodate, you are understanding when appts. need changed or cancelled, you send reminders, and then often remind us to check the reminders (lol), you nurture our bodies and spirits, you keep us laughing and creative, you provide such a warm and inviting space within your home that is so incredibly comfortable, AND you remind us to drink plenty of water. :o)
You take such good care of your space kittens and we appreciate you, big time!!!!
Thanks for all you do to help us maintain wellness and blissipline in our lives. We love life on Planet Joy!!!
It is so nice to just take an hour a month for myself. I also just feel a lot better. I tend to have less upper back/neck/shoulder pain and fewer headaches.
I would definitely recommend this to friends. It is very affordable, much more so than many of our local spas, etc. While it is a bit of a financial investment I have found that it is so worth it.
Want to sign up to be a Year of Massage client, too? Find me on Facebook at facebook.com/planetjoyeaux and send me a message for more details!
What did you love to do when you were little?
I loved dancing, singing to myself, taking pictures, playing dress up, doing puzzles, being outside with trees, talking about big ideas with my friends, making up complicated clubs with lots of rules, playing school, making art, playing with imaginary friends, writing poems and songs….
What are you drawn to? What is something you have seen or experienced that makes you feel so fantastic or hypnotized that you feel like you are on fire?
I love yoga, complicated dances (tango), belly dance, pole dancing, arial dancing, I love watching orchestras, I love baby big cats, I love travelling around the world, I love eating amazing food, I love connecting people and showing them new things….
If you had three different lifetimes and pick three different professions what would they be?
¤ Burlesque trapeze artist
¤ Fire-dancing yogi who travels around the world, street performing
¤ World-food taster with pet-jaguar sidekick
What can you come up with?
Love to Veronica Varlow for this writing prompt.
We all need to stop being so busy!!
Maybe it’s just me but I feel like I’m on a treadmill facing the wrong direction….scary, dangerous, and I’m not getting anywhere.
So, what can we DO when we feel overwhelmed? How can we take a moment to catch our breaths and appreciate where we are and how far we’ve come?
This is MY DO List, yours will look different, I’m sure. I would LOVE to hear what you DO.
* Take deep breaths
* Open a window
* Eat some fruit
* Put some essential oils on
* Take a shower
* Write in my journal
* Think of 5 things I’m grateful for
* Clear out some clutter
* Put on some music and dance (this is a good one)
* Text the word “hug” to all of my friends
* Ask people on facebook to text me a fun fact
* Get a mini-massage
* Take a walk
* Make a collage
* Eat some cereal
* Write a poem
* Give myself a foot massage
* Put on lotion
* Paint my toenails
* Hula hoop
* Go lie in the grass or at least stand barefoot in the yard
…..those are the ones I thought of off the top of my head. What are yours?
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Everyone likes to receive snail mail. Especially when it’s wicked cool and you can hang it on your wall or use it to decorate your room.
Collage Art (made just for you–every one is different!) sent to your mailbox every month:
*1/2 year– $25
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Awkward bunnies, eye masks, bath salts, sparkly stickers….
Only $24/month. Free shipping.
Sign up by emailing me at firstname.lastname@example.org.
I will send you a PayPal invoice and as soon as payment is received, you’ll be on your way to a Magical Mailbox :)
Time to perk up your ears and settle into September with this new playlist: http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKcuyDIHajOTOHp3wqPm7zbC7s0hyni8Z
I listen to a lot of music while I’m doing massages and (thanks to my Songza app) I’m always getting exposed to new stuff.
So, I thought I would start sharing the love!
Here’s my August playlist: http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKcuyDIHajOQEuhqUuKB51iQ36BO4fjfX
Why Tom Hanks is awesome. (Just a few reasons of MANY) The gif at the end!!
How to stop feeling like an imposter at work. (This is great for those of us who own our own businesses.)
Create a year-round salad garden. Don’t forget separate containers for tomatoes! (Tomatoes are vital for yummy salads….)
Speaking of yummy: how DELICIOUS do these Spring samosas look? I can’t wait to try them!! Samosas are magical….
Also: hash brown waffles. (yet another use for my Cinderella waffle maker!)
Mint-infused honey….so lovely!!
🌸Did you know?! Taking too many pictures affects our ability to form detailed memories! So, maybe it’s a good thing that I didn’t take any pictures at my 2-year anniversary spaghetti dinner party….
🌸A painting tells us how to be less selfish. The website has other topics that art can help with as well.
🌸Ever wanted to disappear? Here are step-by-step instructions for deleting yourself from the entire INTERNET.
🌷People painted as flags eating the food of their country. Bizarre and beautiful.
🌷A birds-eye view of different countries. Stunning.
My favorites list would be:
21) Adelle (badass)
20) Kaylee (adorable)
19) Victor (so much fun to watch)
18) Oz (terse and deep)
17) Echo (and all of her roles in Dollhouse) (I loved watching her change--really made me respect Eliza Dushku)
16) Fred (because she's Fred!)
15) Lilah (badass)
14) Harmony (clueless)
13) Alpha (insane)
12) Druscilla (insane)
11) Buffy (adorable)
10) Willow (funny and sweet)
9) Topher (geeky and lovable)
8) Glory (insane)
7) Xander (sweet and goofy)
6) Giles (awesome & British)
5) Cordelia (speaking her mind--and winning my heart)
4) Angel (sexiness)
3) Wesley (for becoming a badass)
2) Anya (always speaking her mind)
1) Spike (cheekbones, sexiness, EVERYTHING)
**that was my geek-out moment of the day**
•I’m so in love with Random Acts of Kindness (like these ones). Maybe when I pay off my loans that’s what I’ll do the next month: just leave money around for people to find and pay for the person behind me :)
•Along those same lines here are 100 ways to tell your child (or anyone, really) how much you love them. Because love is important!
•How to know you’re in a really good (even sacred) relationship.
•Have you ever taken the Meyers Briggs personality test? I’ve actually recently become more of an ESFP but for a long time I was an ENTP so I love this article on the care and feeding of your ENTP. (some of it still really resonates with me)
•Also I still can relate to this one about ENTPs and their awkwardness when it comes to love.
•I love this super cute gift tag DIY.
•I’m kind of obsessed with easy-to-make food that looks totally complicated like braided Nutella bread and eggs with heart-shaped yolks.
•If someone makes me these lasagna cups I will know they love me!!
I’m less than $1000 away from the halfway point!
At this point I’m starting to wonder what I’ll do to celebrate and how much it will change my life to be debt free.
My ultimate goal is to be debt free by my birthday in July. But I know that it’s more realistic to expect to make it happen by November.
If you’d like to help there are two ways to do so and there will be more ways coming soon!
1) If you live in Staunton, schedule a massage!
My current specials are:
contact me at JoyBoardman@gmail.com to schedule.
I’ll be posting my March bath crystals soon! (Aromatherapy Epsom salts which are awesome for sore muscles and detoxifying your body!) I have new ones every month and specially crafted for every zodiac sign.
Things to make:
make your own sugar cubes
Things that make you think:
Have you heard of tiny houses? I want to build one for myself. I’m very excited about this plan:tiny houses for the homeless.
Learn how to defend yourself against emotional muggers. Stop letting anybody steal your joy, make you feel defeated, or deflated.
Steal these creative rituals. I especially love what Ze Frank has to say. (I love that man.)
Have you seen this?! aerie: American Eagles’s lingerie brand uses UNPHOTOSHOPPED MODELS. They have ALL my respect. Hopefully this will be a bigger and bigger trend. (I know Dove has been doing this as well for a long time)
Compassionate living: because animals are awesome.
Speaking of animals: Holy Cuteness: puppy cannot catch the ball (click for video) ….the music makes this video EPIC.
meet the mantis shrimp (“it’s pretty much my favorite animal”) I freaked out when I saw one at the Monterey Bay Aquarium last summer.
ALSO:Harlem Shake: dog edition (click for video) That dance trend died too soon, I feel. The music makes me happy and the videos make me laugh. This one is the BEST.
Get a massage:
Email for more details: JoyBoardman@gmail.com
Just skimmed through Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace Revisited book. (A friend loaned it to me because I’m attempting to get out of debt by July of this year.)
The book was too wordy for me as I am a more “just do it” kinda gal.
I did like the Baby Steps section as it is an easy to follow action plan.
Here’s my new plan for my finances:
Step 1: save $500 in emergency fund (high interest account which I won’t tap into except for emergencies
Step 2: pay off all debt (in the book he talks about paying off the smallest debts first–I’ve been paying off huge chunks at a time to all of my loans:
I only have 4 loans left and I’ve been putting all of my income–after paying rent, setting aside $25 for emergency spending, and tithing 10% to charity (now I’ve started giving 15% instead of 10%, by the end of the year I want to be giving 25%)– into paying off my loans. I divide the money into 4 chunks — 2 large chunks for my high interest loans and 2 smaller chunks for my lower interest loans. (At this point I’m totally disregarding any payment amounts set by my loan lenders– I’m just hacking away as much as possible every single month) Once a loan gets hacked into a small enough piece where I can pay it all off, I do that and divide whatever is left over among the remaining loans.
I’m almost halfway done paying my loans off and I only started in November.
Step 3: once my debt is gone (hopefully by July, definitely by December) save 6 months worth of living expenses in high interest account
Step 4: open a Roth IRA and place 15% in the account every month
Step 5: get insurance–full coverage!!!!
Step 6: save for trip
Step 7: look for house
Step 8: give away everything else.
(In other words:
•I’ll have no more debt
•I’ll have a quietly growing emergency fund
•I’ll have 6+months of living expenses accumulating interest
•I’ll be actively saving 15% for my retirement every month
•paying a premium on insurance
•saving for travel every month
….and the rest can all be used to help other people: my loved ones, my community, and globally (at this point I want to give 10% to each)
It feels good to have a plan. Do you have any tips for saving money or spending it wisely?